Let It Go and Live Again

Finding Healing, Forgiveness, and Peace When Your Children Walk Away

Has your son or daughter stopped calling, stopped visiting, or completely walked away from your life?

Maybe you've spent countless hours asking yourself:

What happened?
What did I do wrong?
Why won't my child talk to me?
Should I call again—or should I give them space?
Will I ever see my grandchildren again?
Will we ever be a family again?

Few things can hurt a parent more than being separated from their own child.

You may feel rejected, angry, confused, guilty, or even ashamed. You may replay old conversations in your mind, wondering what you could have said or done differently.

But there is something important I want you to know:

Your child may have walked away from the relationship. You do not have to walk away from your life.

That is why I wrote Abandoned By My Children: Let It Go and Live Again.

This book is not about blaming you.

It's not about automatically blaming your child.

Instead, we'll take an honest look at what happened, what you may be able to change, what you cannot control, and how you can begin moving toward healing and peace.

Inside This Book, You Will Learn How To:

• Understand what may have contributed to the estrangement.

• Examine your own actions honestly without accepting responsibility for everything that went wrong.

• Recognize that your adult child may have experienced your advice, concern, or parental involvement differently.

• Deal with anger, bitterness, resentment, guilt, regret, and rejection.

• Forgive without pretending that what happened was okay.

• Stop chasing someone who isn't ready for a relationship.

• Respect boundaries while still keeping your heart open.

• Cope with the heartbreak of being separated from your grandchildren.

• Leave the door open for reconciliation without putting your entire life on hold.

• Use I Feel Good, PST™ — Positive Self-Talk to change destructive thoughts before they control your feelings and actions.

• Find purpose, peace, and joy again—even while you continue to love and miss your child.
  

What If My Child Never Comes Back?

This may be one of the hardest questions you will ever have to face.

I cannot promise you that your child will return.

No book can make that promise.

Reconciliation requires two people.

But your healing does not have to depend entirely upon someone else's decision.

You can learn to forgive.

You can learn from the past.

You can change what needs to change within yourself.

You can leave the door open.

You can continue loving your child.

And you can live again.

This Is More Than a Book

Throughout Abandoned By My Children, you'll find Bible Scriptures, relatable stories, practical exercises, personal reflection questions, I Feel Good, PST™ Positive Self-Talk, and a complete 10-chapter workbook.

The workbook includes 50 personal reflection questions and 10 essays designed to help you examine your own story—not somebody else's.

Because your situation is personal.

Your relationship with your child is personal.

And your journey toward healing will be personal too.

I Want to Give You the eBook FREE

You don't have to purchase anything to begin.

I'd like you to read Abandoned By My Children: Let It Go and Live Again for yourself.

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Start reading. Work through the questions. Take your time. Pray about what you discover.

Then ask yourself:

What can I change?
What do I need to forgive?
What do I need to let go?
And what would it mean for me to live again?

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No matter how long your child has been gone, remember:

Keep loving.
Leave the door open.
Trust God.
Let it go.

And live again.

George Constantine Tannous, PhD
Doctorate in Christian Counseling
AbandonedByMyChildren.com